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Vintage Physique Models in Bondage

A couple of posing strap models in bondage.

A blond youth tied to a column. Pseudo-classical images were popular back then.

Vintage Posing Strap Model in Bondage

The hunk tied to a tree is Ed Fury. Like many other American body builders and physique models Fury traveled to Italy to star in sword and sandal films.

Vintage Posing Strap Model Tied to a Tree in Bondage

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The Master

The Master, more vintage BDSM imagery.

BDSM Master Sadist

BDSM Master and Slave

BDSM Gay Master and Bottom Boi

Master & Male Bondage Slave

Blond in Bondage


A beautiful young stud meets his master in a sizzling story of power and submission.

Lots of bondage, plenty of chains, a little flogging and some nipple torture from a gay BDSM publication of decades ago.

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Gay-Top-Masters-Rules

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Gay-Male-Slave-Being-Chained

Gay-Male-Slave-Being-Flogged

Gay-Slave-Nipple-Torture

Gay-Top-Tortures-Male-Slaves-Nipples

Gay-Tops-Male-Slave-in-Bondage

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This is more than I’d usually sample. But I’m a sucker for bondage. Ramsey Reese Top Man contained many pages. Some explicit, at least for the time. Maybe you can find a copy on eBay.

She Asked For Ice Cream!!!!

Master Taboo Nazi Sadist

I’ll call him Master Taboo: he boasts that he is one of the most dark, taboo and sadistic men on the planet.

He’s a heterosexual male dominant whose profile I’ve been following for a few weeks. It changes often. I wish I’d thought to clip some of his more notable statements.

What originally caught my attention: after a brutal S&M session a woman asked for ice cream. This seems to have sent the man into a fit of rage. How dare his slave feel anything other than suffering and shame.

OK, tops do get ticked off at too abrupt a mood change after a scene. But Master Taboo seems to expect his female slaves to feels degraded and abject every second of every day. I.e., he’s the sort of forgets that a slave is a human being however much he may find pleasure in objectifying her.

Sadistic Ice Cream

My thought was that he could give her some ice cream but make her eat it from a bowl on the floor. (My former beloved would’ve dropped it on the floor. No bowl.) He could’ve turned feeding her ice cream into part of the session.

For a longish time his profile was typical of the kind of top who bitches that there are no real slaves. No woman who met with him was willing to continue seeing him. They all fall short of his exalted standards. He isn’t attractive. He doesn’t sound like an especially gifted sadist. But he expects his fantasy made flesh.

More recently Master Taboo has taken to ranting at people who’ve written to him saying that he’s an abuser. I’m agnostic as to the truth of that. But he seems the kind of dominant who might well lose control.

Early on his profile declared that models and pretty women were tired of men catering them. An ugly man’s fondest dream. Now he says they make terrible slaves. He’s cashed one reality check.

I like dark sadists. Just not the delusional ones.

Odd Personal Ad

Odd, almost unsettling word in the profile of a pair of men looking for slaves:

If your taking care of your family or parents, don’t tell me your looking to be a slave; too bad you assume your parents are gonna die soon. We are not here to wait for your parents to die off.

Naturally we want commitment if hoping for a serious power exchange relationship. But that these two dominants chose this wording only puts off a discerning reader.

Sneaker Worship

If the handsome man in the chair were a beautiful woman then this fashion ad wouldn’t have surprised me as it initially did.

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Sports Shoe Retifism

Male model is Tom Ford.

Brazilian Young Man in Bondage

Samples from a early 1980s sequence of photographs starring a handsome young Brazilian man in rope bondage.

Brazilian Boy in Rope Bondage

Brazilian Male Model in Bondage

Brazilian Man in Cock Bondage

Brazilian Model in Bondage

Photography by Kristen Bjorn.

The Pierced Penis

Body modification – modifying my own body – has never tempted me. Not even a tattoo. Not that I dismiss BME as a legitimate aesthetic enterprise.

At least my conventional sexuality.

For my masochistic and slavish components penis piercings seem very exciting.

  • As a token of ownership – my status as property.
  • Method of control: imagine a leash attached to one of those rings.
  • An interestingly cruel method of enforcing chastity.

Penis Piercings

Penis Pierced

Consensual Erotic Sadomasochism: Words of Joy

My Pleasure in Being Submissive and Masochistic

(I got a note saying that someone on Informed Consent swiped this without credit. Rereading it I find I still enjoy it and thought I’d repost the list here on BDSM Romance.

Submissive Man Under Woman's Foot

Individuality – we each express who we are without regard to the bogus conventions, sham rules and kindred nonsense that is often propounded as truths on the web.

Erotic Beauty – Ordinary people they say have fifteen minutes of sex a few times a week. Pneumatic action followed by sleep. In our power exchange “sex” can last for hours and the afterglow for days. (Yeah, this is two words.)

Pet – I’m in love and on my knees. Resting my head on her knee and waiting for her hand to brush the back of my neck is one of the happiest spaces I can go to.

Creature – (Not really explored. But I want ten.) Less than human object. Existing to be used: inarticulate, obedient without thought.

Slave – My will vanishes. There seems to be an invisible wire that leads from her brain to mine. My brain becomes quiet, if I think it is only to make sure I obey.

Helpless – How odd it is to be a man who must struggle to reach these states. Thankfully chains and cuffs can help me find my way there.

Pain – I almost laugh as I type that word. My mind harks back to being bound at the dining room entry as she hit me. Would that next blog of the quirt be too much or not enough? Before she comes back I will go to my rose garden and cut a thick stem.

Suffering – As she hurts me it feels as if she is eating my heart like it is a rare delicacy. There is more than mere physical suffering to be explored.

Surrender – I prefer this word to submission. (And despise “sub” and “subbie.”) Doing what I’m told or really merely asked meshes deeply with my needs.

Worship – this is where the surrender is purest, becomes beatific. When this overcomes me I wish I were telepathic. There are no words, is no action with which I can really let her feel what is flowing through my heart.

Your words?