Daddy Master spanking his submissive boi.
Originally posted 2013-11-24 08:37:54.
The title Boy Slaves is more exciting than what was a rather earnest 1930s RKO movie.
Just let your imagination run wild.
Originally posted 2013-11-21 08:16:28.
Young Richard had just discovered his same sex loving component and it reallyh shook up his world. He moved to the big city (Atlanta) where there were many exciting things not to be found back home in Savannah.
Like adult bookshops. I never became a habitué. But it was a good place to begin the study of homosex.
Back then there were these really trashy, sleazy sex tabloids. I bought one. It was filled of things not dreamed of in my philosophy. Like butt plugs. Who knew such things existed. Why did they exist? (Something I’ve yet to understand.)
There were things that grab my imagination and would color my BDSM fantasies forever.
There was a crude drawing of a man in bondage. His neck collar as connected to a testicle collar. Movement would pull at his balls or squeeze his neck.
I’d just discovered predicament bondage. Maybe the drawing is why my testicles are so deeply connected with submissive emotions (otherwise they are just there unless I – ouch! – bump into something).
The response of my internal plethysmograph testify to how testicle bondage excites me.
Originally posted 2013-11-09 07:02:03.
Two men tie another to a tree. Their bondage skills appear minimal. But we will oblige them by suspending belief.
Don’t those white pants and shoes look slick. The guy on the right may even be aroused.
What will happen to the bound man? Hopefully a whipping.
Originally posted 2013-11-06 06:58:37.
Sadomasochism Comprises Sexual Orientations
I got this unexpected email:
I’ve been fascinated with this concept since finishing Elise
Sutton’s Female Domination. . .. have to
wonder, how do you get a submissive to get on it if he isn’t
“willing” or he has the inner strength to submit to such.
Seems I would really have to have a good reason.
Beyond getting a non-submissive boyfriend to play bedroom games she’d fail. He’d eventually get tired of it and leave. There’s always the chance of latent submissiveness but there’s no winning in striving for the unlikely.
People need to understand that BDSM – D/s, S&M, Bondage, Humiliation – these erotic needs, desires, inclinations are issue of sexual orientation. Just as much as gender orientation.
The sadist or masochist can’t stop being who they are anymore than a gay man can be converted by Marcus Bachmann into a heterosexual.
Being dominant or submissive is an issue of inner nature. Qualities settled in us when we were innocent children. Fighting against your sexuality only leads to unhappiness.
And people are kinky in their own individual way. And there desires and pleasures often modify in the presence of a top or bottom they really enjoy being with.
If you are a sadist, dominant or masochist, submissive person and your lover or spouse doesn’t share your needs then you need to either leave the relationship or arrange for your partner to your exploring BDSM with others.
Originally posted 2013-10-31 06:20:46.
Originally posted 2013-10-28 05:52:46.
A self-proclaimed – it isn’t as if there’s a licensing authority for the term – Old Guard Master shares his view of the M/s power exchange:
The distance between Master and that of Slave is greater than the Distance between Man and Ape.
The Master is African-American so given the recent media furors over the racial implications of images of primates this is an exceptionally unfortuneate metaphor.
But would be a damn silly assertion to make outside of BDSM porn anytime.
Originally posted 2013-10-22 05:18:59.
Hot & Hung!
Hot & Hung!
When you find that one in a million slave that has already had training and needs a new master, then you can really enjoy strict bondage.
… For strict bondage heavy rope is acceptable but must be applied correctly or becomes noneffective. The rope should be applied by wrapping it around the wrists or ankles securely, but not too tightly, then the bonds can be secured by cinching. …
The limbs should be bound securely at all joints to insure that the slave is completely incapacitated. …
Originally posted 2013-10-19 04:42:36.
Do Masochists Make You Feel Like This Woman?
We all have our own idiolect: idiosyncratic ways we use certain words.
In my own mind I often distinguish between humiliation and degradation. Not clearly or consistently.
For me degradation is most often the physical side of being treated as inferior. Scrubbing floors would be an instance. Forced to eat unpleasant food another.
Humiliation I most often association with consensual emotional sadomasochism.
There’s also humbling: gentle inferiority. Eating food, ordinary food, from a bowl. Being a pet. Being humble can be sweet and gentle. An occasional swat doesn’t conflict with a pat on the head.
My internal jargon important. I’m seeking distinctions for which there is no really ready terminology.
(Train of thought interruption. I stuck a Grace Jones CD in my player only to discover that some component seems to have died.)
Man Looks into Masochist’s Mind
When I suggested the term contempt play I meant emotional violence, particularly verbal sadism.
SSC, RACK verbal S&M to be sure. There are lines that should never be crossed.
I’m very difficult, perhaps impossible to really humiliate. I know about my limitations, flaws and failures. But there as aspects of my life I wouldn’t want used in spoken humiliation. They are behaviors that I wish I didn’t possess, could eliminate.
I’m happy with my gender, race and sexuality. But given the right tone mocking me for those things would plunge me deep down. I’ve often wished to me scored – in a scene – for my masochism and submissiveness. I’m ashamed of neither.
Mostly I crave the tone. The condemnation, contemptuous laughter, sheer scorn. For me this would be cathartic. I’d cringe, perhaps even cower waiting for you to stop. The days following I’d feel uplifted and view the world with vivid delight.
Humiliation and degradation can be funny activities. Once Alexandra rolled a raw egg along my butt crack. I was so baffled that I fell out of submissive emotional space. Later when I asked her why she said it was to humiliate me. I’ve never understood that. And will go to my grave puzzled.
Just Plain Swell Female Top
(The next day: this entry didn’t turn out that well.)
Originally posted 2013-10-04 03:34:57.
Inexperienced Tops & Online Slaves
Inexperienced Tops & Online Slaves
I ran across a profile that stated that the writer’s subby (sic) friends had often told him that he’d make a good dominant. The exact wording of the profile has faded. It seemed to have a strong element of bluff.
The man had never topped anyone since he was seeking to begin to do so. My suspicion was that he had no real life BDSM experience. Like many his kink life was wholly online.
On the web if you declare yourself dominant you’ll have no shortage of ostensibly submissive people striving to kiss your virtual ass.
As heady as that adoration may be it can lead to the worst sort of false self-confidence. There’s no way of knowing how well you are able to read a submissive person’s potentials and desires. Online playmates are going to tell you what you want to hear.
And a novice sadist can forget the lack of real experience. I remember one whose head was filled with plans for cattle prods and hot pokers without having any idea how likely the masochist would be to visiting the hospital.
Isolated tops can become a bit batty. I remember running across a few in isolated areas here who’d come to have the most outlandish self-esteem and overweening expectations.
On my second visit to the profile the author had inserted the standard bitch about people who weren’t “real subs.” There was no third time: the profile was withdrawn.
Originally posted 2013-09-28 02:52:53.