Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:13.
I just read a profile that says only:
looking to explore my desires to control and use.
You might expect me to mock the guy because the profile is too short.
But the words admit inexperience and make no demands. It is easy to belive that he’s willing to discuss and negotiate. His mind hasn’t been corrupted by absolutist fantasies.
And I’ve complained about tops who seem to be typing with one hand while they wank with another. Unable to distinguish between what they think they want and what they might possibly get.
People visiting this site might read some entries and think I have it in for dominant persons and sadists. Not at all. Some of my satisfaction in life comes from another person’s will and cruelty.
If you’d known me – if only virtually – to read what I’ve written over the years about sadism, masochism and consensual power exchange you’d see that I often signaled out men who describe themselves as submissive for dispraise.
Sadly regardless of power exchange orientation most men and women need to discern what they really need, discover what is possible and learn how to convey that in an online personal ad or profile.
Just so you know.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:07.
Odd, almost unsettling word in the profile of a pair of men looking for slaves:
If your taking care of your family or parents, don’t tell me your looking to be a slave; too bad you assume your parents are gonna die soon. We are not here to wait for your parents to die off.
Naturally we want commitment if hoping for a serious power exchange relationship. But that these two dominants chose this wording only puts off a discerning reader.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:03.
The other day I noted one of my favorite images of female domination. I find very little BDSM imagery that excites me.
So much of it is genital sex. Nothing wrong with that but that isn’t what stirs me in a special way. But my head beneath a top’s boot – as I know from real life – is one of those livable symbols of submission that fills my heart with the humility that my arrogant self often craves.
From an old magazine, Butch. More to come.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:57.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:52.
I’ve been getting fan mail today. Here’s what arrived in the space of about forty minutes:
- I am a very submissive male in Raleigh that loves to crossdress
- I love your profile Sir
- i am a very submissive male crossdresser
- your profile is so exciting to me Sir
- I need to be controlled and mde to serve
- gawd i would love serving you Sir
Pretty frantic isn’t he. Wouldn’t be surprised if I were the first person he’s ever written. I’ve told him to calm down and that recent changes in my life leaves me presently too distracted to deal with anyone.
(I’ll write about my top profile later, though it may be on Down On My Knees.)
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:46.