Forced milking machines extracting cum from male slaves on a automated masturbation sperm farm.
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Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:11.
Like many people with a need for erotic submission I have a strong desire to be made lowly. And what could more safely satisfy that kind of desire than being treated as an animal.
I greatly wished to be ridden. To be a human horse or as it is more commonly called by kinky folk a ponyboy. Not that I cared about the flashy appurtenances: manes, tails, costumes. The bridle and saddle were the items that fired my imagination.
Gear made for pony-persons is very costly. At least anything other than the bit gag I always meant to buy. The saddles were far beyond what I could afford.
I wanted a the saddle and stirrups to enable easy and extensive riding of me. Otherwise there would be no real pleasure for the rider.
A stirrups substitute would’ve been sufficient but that eluded by very limited mechanical cleverness. Given the stirrups I’d have bought her boots with spurs.
NB: The woman on the right is holding the most unlikely instrument of corporal punishment that I’ve ever seen.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:12.
Contempt Play is Serious Play
One of the interesting – and for me initially surprising – differences among tops is their feelings about degrading and humiliation a submissive partner ro playmate.
Almost all male tops seem to enjoy humiliation. Women seem more divided: yes, no, maybe, ewwww! A whole lot of submissive men are also emotional masochists.
Submissive men desire to be dehumanized, degraded who are in relationships with dominant women who don’t enjoy that kind of dominance often seem frustrated. Even becoming angry with her. Or at least sullen and withdrawn.
( – Yes, yes a submissive person is supposed to only do what she desires, etc., etc. Really submissive men and women are individuals and not round objects to be shoved into square holes. – )
How serious is this divide. Is it as wide as the gulf between masochistic men and their vanilla girlfriends and wives? I hope not. Those folks should just be realistic and split up, get a divorce. Why kid yourself into years of pain that isn’t a pleasure?
My own sexuality has evolved and changed in response to so many things I’ve lost count. Would it help a top feel comfortable to humiliate us if we used different words?
Contempt play. With the emphasis on play. Perhaps it can help the dominant partner understand that we know that we aren’t really worthless. That we don’t deserved to be treated like trash.
Contempt play is a form of role play. It can range from being treated as an unimportant object to a person who should be emotionall assaulted merely for being alive.
Why do some of us crave to be treated like garbage? I do have some ideas about the source and origin of my own emotional masochism. But we’d have to be mighty close for me to share the secret with you.
Talk to me about consensual erotic humiliation and degradation.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:59.
Varieties of Ruined Orgasmic Experience
Poor Old Mr. Penis
Ruined Orgasm I
Many years ago during a period when I was looking for an outlet for my masochism a man who wrote me had a sadistic desire that was new to me.
The guy wanted to tie me up and masturbate me to and past orgasm. The continued massaging of my penis would eventually become painful. Having been a sometimes too enthusiastic wanker I knew my penis could become sore. What an exciting idea. (Sadly he decided that he wanted to explore his own masochism and we never met.)
Ruined Orgasm II
A device, finger, dildo, Aneros prostate massager is used to stimulate a man’s prostate gland. This forces him to ejaculate without having any sort of orgasm.
Technically there is no orgasm involved but involunatarily mimicking the results of an orgasms is dehumanizing and humiliating.
This has always struck me as a very moving experience. To have your physiological response manipulated inddependent of your actions or intenions.
Ruined Orgasm iII
A few years later focussing exclusively on F/m BDSM I read an entry on male genital manipulate:
No lubrication is used, and the glove is not allowed to slide over the organ. At the first twitch, pulsation, or other indication of approaching orgasm, she quickly removes her hand. She does not resume the almost mechanical “Milking” for a full minute. Sixty seconds is a long time when excitement is high. It is, however, necessary to wait out the full time prior to resumption. This same routine is carried out again and again, ceasing each time that there is the slightest muscle twitch observed or suspected. During the sixty seconds that the “Milking” is not taking place, the Mistress should tell the slave how well he is doing, how much pleasure she will get from his having a dribble orgasm, how displeased she will be if he has strong contractions, how he must relax and not do anything to spoil her pleasure, etc. This, in conditioning terms, is the reinforcement stage. The grand finale is a little squirt from the cock slit, followed by his slime slowly oozing out. While this is occurring Mistress should again give positive reinforcement. …
My synapses contorted themselves into new shapes when I read that. I wish I’d copied the entire, quite long, entry. The blog is long gone but it always seemed to actually be written by a woman in a F/m power exchange relationship.
How profoundly humbling to have one of a man’s greatest delights so diminished, made feeble.
Ruined Orgasms IV
From another F/m blog:
I then very quickly and vigorously, almost viciously, from behind, jerk his organ with my rubber gloved hand. He is so tense that it rarely takes even a minute before he is ready to spurt. I am watching this very closely and as soon as I note a slight start of a spasm I stop, take my hands away, step back and watch amused as he spurts, in a most frustrating fashion into his condom.
I assure you there is no orgasm when this method is employed, try it yourself and see! The look of frustration, total and utter frustration, is a picture to behold. Even now after several years of this treatment, he cannot quite comprehend just how frustrating the experience is. It leaves him yearning and desiring satisfaction, dreaming of what he used to experience. He remains totally unrelieved of his sexual tensions and urges, indeed they are multiplied ten-fold as a consequence of the frustration of being so near, yet so far from an orgasm. All that has been released is his semen, not his sexual tension.
This blog entry was much longer. I was rapt with helpless fascination. But clearly the account was fiction presented as truth. Perhaps only to give the story a greater sadomasochistic thrill.
Ruined Orgasm Summary
The first is pure S&M. The masochist’s penis is forced to endure pain. This is so much the opposite of what is expected from the genitals that it is almost shocking.
The second is also pure physical manipulation of a man’s sexual organs. His power over himself is literally taken away. It seems like a species of consensual sexual assault.
In the third a man is masturbated in a carefully structured manner. The goal is to elicit an orgasm without pleasure. The man’s body is pushed to climix perhaps by duration.
With the fourth we find a man caculatingly brought to orgasm only to have the stimulation removed with cunning timing to render the orgasm pleasureless.
The first and second kinds of male sexual manipulation are actually practiced.
The third and four have captured the mind’s of masochistic men as the most humiliating. Especially number four. It is the kind of ruined orgasm men search the web for.
The Runied Orgasm Myth
A BDSM urban legend I think. Of course I speak only with the authority of my own body.
I’ve certainly had orgasms that I felt could’ve been better.
I’ve had orgasms after taking my hand from my penis just a moment too soon.
Sometimes I’ve had orgasms that didn’t result in ejaculation. My body still shuddered. Pleasure surged through me.
Even my mildest, most flawed and least competently achieved orgasms gave me pleasure.
Your can be over-masturbated to pain. Your prostate can be massaged to ejaculation without orgasm.
But even the most minimal orgasm is fun.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:58.
Spoken S&M – Verbal BDSM
I couldn’t find an on theme image that wasn’t disgusting. I sure do envy the young man on his knees.
Verbal abuse should be dropped from the list of consensual sadomasochistic fetishes. The term has terrible associations. Verbal sadism (or masochism) fits better for those of us who want to participate in it knowingly.
I’m not going to get in the rut of writing about it. But just as physical sadists are sometimes uncomfortable with emotional S&M even those who don’t mind (ideally enjoy) inflicting humiliation cannot handle verbal sadism.
Why am I am a verbally masochistic man? I have a muddy perception of the sources of these desires. Of primal origin, in the sense that they emerge most likely from earliest childhood. (I was not abuse so don’t be upset.) Maybe one day I’ll make another attempt to outline my personal – probably crackpot – theory.
Because of this fetish’s deep roots it is one of the most moving and powerful experiences that I can have in the context of BDSM.
I do not need it to be happy. Or to be satisfied with a top. But the top who could speak to me with the right tone would be granting me a great grace.
I have copious, fluid and wide ranging sexualities. More narrow masochists may experience this as a serious need. And the bottom may not understand this clearly. It is something the dominant person should be aware of in hopes of understanding why an otherwise likeable submissive person isn’t content. Perhaps even becomes faithless and leaves.
I want to emphasize that many submissive persons do not fully understand their desires. Cannot articulate them. This is true of many people in many situations.
Being mindful of this may make you better able to evaluate a potential play partner. Or understand the failure of a D/s love affair.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:31.
This male slave has been convert by its Owner into a sanitary device. Bound in a cage, head wrapped in a sensory deprivation hood the only sensation this human object knows is the flow of hot urine into its mouth.
Is it being punished? Has the Owner decided this is to be his property’s perpetual future. To drink the piss of strangers for the rest of its unnatural life.
Originally posted 2016-01-17 20:39:02.
Limitation as Psychological Sadomasochism
(From over three years ago. I remember Bitchy Jones liked the mashed potatoes.)
A week or so ago I was back at the Nifty Archive looking for nasty ideas to make my own. A story opened with a guy being forced to stay naked on the back porch. Oh, yes, I thought how many times have I …
Oh damn, it is cold and it makes him slightly ill. I can’t go there. I have to be very careful about the cold. Under certain circumstances I become very ill for anywhere from two to five days from cold air and moisture. (Been true since I was eighteen. My doctor can’t see any cause.)
Discomfort I think was the final refinement of my dirty dreams of this kind of extended power exchange. Discomfort isn’t really the right term but noncomfort isn’t a word. Call it the absence of comfort.
In my fantasies the top doesn’t often have much to say, nor do I: lack of imagination. The exception is in explaining what they are about to do to me and why. She or he seemed delighted to offer a clinical exposition technique and process. Preambles that induce trepidation in advance of the experience.
Like a contented mad scientist anticipating his or her destruction of the world I am told:
That I will no longer sleep on a bed. My collar will be chained to the bathroom wall and I will rest on the cold, damp floor. Maybe the light will be left on to render whatever sleep I manage even less satisfying. The bathroom is chosen because it is cramped and access to the toilet will keep me from making a mess. (Alternate take: a pole in the backyard.)
No more use of furniture. Unless needed I will be kept in designated spaces in prescribed postures. Often muzzled, blindfolded and ear plugged: limited self-expression, my mind turned on itself.
My food will be at best boring, perhaps even distasteful. Cold instant mashed potatoes and boiled liver for example. Pissed on dog food should my behavior be found wanting. Should I hesitate to eat what is offered I will go without food.
And piss or other unpleasant things will be all I ever drink.
Orgasms? Rare: only often enough to remind me of what I’m missing.
In this the dominant’s goal isn’t pain. It is the absence of certain kind of stimuli. So that pleasing the top becomes my primary – only – pleasure.
As I’ve noted before these fantasies seemed to accompany an increasing desire to be submissive. For me deepest submission creates the illusion of a loss of self and consuming focus on, responsiveness to the person controlling me.
There’s nothing rare in any of this except perhaps my ability to coolly appraise it.
The negation of comfort – given an aware and compatible partner – is probably within the realm of possibility. That is rare among the weird and silly ideas guys like me have.
I actually wrote this all up once. But it is so over the top even I would be embarrassed to publish it.
Original post with comments: Discomfort.
Originally posted 2016-01-01 05:28:30.