Slave houseboy helping his Master relax after a long day at work.
Originally posted 2013-07-16 07:40:47.
Gratuitous image of Superboy in bondage.
The top’s profile had a reasonable feel at first. The man seemed reasonable and mature. A bit ambiguous but it can be tough to both be specific and keep a range of options open when writing a profile.
When he got to outlining what he wanted in a slave it was the usual 24/7, total slave, no limits razzmatazz. But in summarizing his slave’s life there was an element that stood out starkly:
Now that seems a terrible thing to expect from someone or to want to subject anyone to.
Not that I was sure what he meant. My guess was that his slave would not grow, progress, develop, evolve: change in any way. Enslavement as a sort of personal stasis.
To be fair the inner life of many people freezes. They become unchanging bores. And spend the rest of their days in front of the TV set.
But I can’t imagine a submissive person with any creativity, spirit – real interest in life signing up for a form of slavery that entails anything like the lack of a future.
Originally posted 2013-07-05 20:11:42.
Thanks to Netflix I’ve seen some but not all of Showtime Australia’s soap opera set in a bordello, Satisfaction.
In the episode “Staples, Guns and Roses” Kestie Morassi is shown using staple gun on her submissive playmate’s feet.
That I’ve had that fantasy isn’t the point. When her vanilla lover comes on the scene there are moments when her face is contored by the exalted state she is in from satisfying her dominant and sadistic needs.
That she seems overwhelmed by her sexuality makes this a very moving scene. There are plenty of clips of women hurting men. But they are only earning money. No shame in that. Nor any thrill.
Originally posted 2013-06-15 12:46:31.
I just read a profile that says only:
looking to explore my desires to control and use.
You might expect me to mock the guy because the profile is too short.
But the words admit inexperience and make no demands. It is easy to belive that he’s willing to discuss and negotiate. His mind hasn’t been corrupted by absolutist fantasies.
And I’ve complained about tops who seem to be typing with one hand while they wank with another. Unable to distinguish between what they think they want and what they might possibly get.
People visiting this site might read some entries and think I have it in for dominant persons and sadists. Not at all. Some of my satisfaction in life comes from another person’s will and cruelty.
If you’d known me – if only virtually – to read what I’ve written over the years about sadism, masochism and consensual power exchange you’d see that I often signaled out men who describe themselves as submissive for dispraise.
Sadly regardless of power exchange orientation most men and women need to discern what they really need, discover what is possible and learn how to convey that in an online personal ad or profile.
Just so you know.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:07.
Odd, almost unsettling word in the profile of a pair of men looking for slaves:
If your taking care of your family or parents, don’t tell me your looking to be a slave; too bad you assume your parents are gonna die soon. We are not here to wait for your parents to die off.
Naturally we want commitment if hoping for a serious power exchange relationship. But that these two dominants chose this wording only puts off a discerning reader.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:57:03.
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