Some people are supposedly very service oriented. Happy to do tasks with no reward other than pleasing the top. Some pretend they are and are hoping they’ll get more satisfaction of some sort than they have to date.

Some people look on BDSM as a source of free labor. Classical slavery as it were.

Here’s a man with very specific desires:

LOOKING FOR SLAVE WHO KNOW’S CONSTRUCTION WORK OR HANDY-MAN TO WORK AROUND MY HOUSE.

Manual labor, drudgery is a common fantasy for submissive people.

What is behind Curtain Number One?

In return I will let you be my slave!

Master Builder has a precisely layered level of rewards prepared.

You will start with your very own 4×4x6 room in my basement. If you perform well around my house you will be granted permission to have a larger room (possibly 6×6x8 with electric and maybe a fan - if your work is very good you will get your very own AM radio).

What is on AM radio nowadays? Rush Limbaugh?

I toyed with the idea this ad was a put-on. But …

You will be fed daily and clean at all times. You will be allowed to go out (1)x per week for (1)hour. You will be allowed to call your immediated family (1)x per week. YOU WILL NOT BE ALLOWED TO CALL YOUR FRIENDS.

Master/slave relations can have their cultic aspects. But when someone wants to cut you off from your friends in puts me in mind of the kind of cult that ends with people drinking Kool-Aid. Don’t hook up with anybody who wants to cut you off from the outside world.

Part of the CollarMe profile from a fellow who identifies himself as a gay male slave:

Okay, first things first regarding me doing your housework. I have no problem with this, but let’s face it, everyone wants me to do their housework. Every Dominant person in the country wants a slave to do their housework for them. So what’s so special about you, right? Let’s talk about the rest of the deal.

Hooray for him! (His ad overall is forthright and appealing.)

There’s no doubt that some tops think a D/s title or power exchange roles is far more of an entitlement than it is.

This isn’t a criticism of this kind of service submission. Just don’t be so desperate that you let people take advantage of you or use you in he wrong way. While it should be obvious it doesn’t hurt to state that bottoms, submissive persons and slaves are people.