Bernard Montorgueil was the working name of a much admired early 20th century French artist much admired for his depictions of female domination and sadism.
My own feelings about siffyfication have varied considerably over the years.
Years ago, using the web for hooking up, I was always repelled by young men who wanted me to feminize them in some way. But I also wrote an erotic story fragment about humiliating a transvestite.
Finally I realized that dominating a feminine gay male was an understandable extension of my vanilla relationships. Topping a pretty guy is always a delight. Power exchange and S&M were mere variation. What I don’t enjoy is gender guilt. I’d never enjoy humiliating a ‘straight’ or bisexual man because being feminization evoked shame.