Dear Mr. Profile Person,
Your profile (or personal ad) says you are a heterosexual man. But you write to me. Since you never say anything like “I’m a straight guy who wants to humiliate a homo,” I have to guess that you are really bisexual but don’t want to state that visibly even on a website devoted to helping us kinky perverts get together.
I do know the misconceptions that monosexuals both heterosexual and gay often have about us. They are sure we can’t be faithful and suspect we’re likely to be disease ridden.
But as someone who listened to his father disown him – tell him he didn’t care if he starved in the street – rather than lie to a question about his sexuality I find it awful hard at times to feel really sympathetic.
So butch up: especially if you call yourself a top. I’m not looking to be dominated by a scaredy cat.
So butch up!
Yours faithfully,
Richard
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Man, bisexuality is nooooooooot easy. We get flak from both sides, don’t we? But all we can do is be true to ourselves : )