(From June of last year.)
Entries Tagged 'Personal Favorites' ↓
Eleven
April 23rd, 2008 — Personal Favorites
20 Dicta About D/s & S&M in the 21st Century
April 15th, 2008 — Personal Favorites
Ten Great Things About D/s & S&M
March 30th, 2008 — Personal Favorites
(From November 2006. A bit odd to read now.)
People love these ten best sorts of lists. I don’t know why, suggesting that you fit in ten anything is confessing that you are generic. But as someone who did market research for many years I know that unconscious involuntary conformity is even truer than I thought as an angry teen.
Earning My Mistress
March 24th, 2008 — Personal Favorites
(It wasn’t long after I discovered that I could enjoy being dominated and tormented by a woman that I created a micro-site on Geocities (remember that?) focusing on my submissive side. I don’t know why I thought a little story would be an effective way to communicate my sense of the - ? - proprieties. To my surprise response from the women who ran across it was positive and kind. Of course they all lived hundreds or thousands of miles away: a condition that persists to this day.)
“A strong arm and a stinging paddle are the best training tools.”
Transvestite Humiliation
March 21st, 2008 — Personal Favorites
(This is about eight years old.)
When I first started making the acquaintance of gay men who wear pretty dresses I was startled by the undercurrent of masochism. Not that I have anything against masochism. But the transvestites’ craving for humiliation seemed to emerge from their image of womanhood.
Crossdresser sexism troubled me. Happy satisfaction in crossdressing often involves pleasure in recreating traditional gender roles as much as flouting the norms. That they guys wanted to express their femininity by being spanked was off-putting. No condemnation is meant; it is an axiom of urbanity that sexuality simply is. Sex is evil only without consent.
I read little erotica (although I did read a recent femsub novel in the shop last week, title forgotten, it was remarkably well-written). I’ve written a half dozen fragments of erotica. I don’t have a narrative gift and am deaf to idiomatic dialogue. They were written to help me explore some facet of my sexuality. Below is my attempt to come to grips with transvestite humiliation. If sexual power exchange repels you don’t read any further.
The penultimate paragraph is the key.
Thank You, Ms. Zandra!
March 10th, 2008 — Personal Favorites
(This happened in 2000 I think. I wrote it up a year or two later on my old Live Journal account.)
