Ebooks have been common in the make money the easy way online sucker market for some time. Now they are invading BDSM, at least the Femdom portion of it.
Ebooks are often written by people with no expertise in the subject they are covering, just a desire to make a buck. Often the rights to the books are sold to other people who also peddle it online.
The page count is often low and sometimes a series are sold as an online course. It is a real sucker’s market.
Don’t be fooled into buying an ebook or online course promising to teach you how to be a submissive man, turn your wife into a dominatrix or win a Mistress.
Everything that you need to know about male submission and female dominance is out here on the web. Again and again: there is no secret, no hidden lore; any promise of special techniques is sheer bunk.
Being a good submissive man is mostly about being a good man; taking a pleasure in deference, needing to surrender to control. And often – hooray for masochism! – happiness in pain.
The people you can learn from are the men and women who have forged successful female dominant relationships and share their experiences on blogs and forums. Don’t be tempted by the bogus offers you see on the web.
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I like that you are acting as a consumer advocate for submissive men. My girlfriend is one who, as you describe, has been driven into trying the pro domme thing due to the economic circumstances. She has a degree in psychology and has mainly set up shop to counsel submissive men about their desires and try to help them integrate it into their large personality as opposed to being so divided. As a submissive man myself, I wished someone had been there to do that for me a long time ago.
She’s getting some clients now and one of them has been put through the wringer of “female supremacy” and unhealthy kink. This has caused her to become an advocate for responsible female domination versus the message of female supremacy which is: you’re worthless, hand me your money AND your life.
You can read her thoughts about it at http://www.mistressroulette.com/2009/04/sutton/
Take Care.