Thanks for the very kind words.

Over the years I’ve had luck meeting people online. Some of it was just one-off hookups. I formed one very serious romantic relationship via a profile. Another came from participation in an online group.

It takes enormous patience for some of us to meet appropriate people online but that has been true – for me at least – in offline life.

Thanks and take care.

I am not a self-acknowledged homosexual, so I have absolutely no experience with real or virtual interactions that you describe. Of course, that is open to interpretation. What I am, is a male who wants to serve a woman, and that is where the D/S, and the S/M features kick in.

I have done some surfing on the web, and seen much of the same crud that you describe, only in the context of “female led relationships”. Much of what you say, could and may have been said by women, whether being heterosexual or homosexual.

I have never gotten into the sites that seek partners, but I have seen references to it via female led relationship blogs. I find some fascinating in my fantasies, but mostly unrealistic. Some are stupid, arrogant, and worse. I don’t know whether anyone can connect with a reasonable person based on these postings and profiles.