Part of the CollarMe profile from a fellow who identifies himself as a gay male slave:
Okay, first things first regarding me doing your housework. I have no problem with this, but let’s face it, everyone wants me to do their housework. Every Dominant person in the country wants a slave to do their housework for them. So what’s so special about you, right? Let’s talk about the rest of the deal.
Hooray for him! (His ad overall is forthright and appealing.)
There’s no doubt that some tops think a D/s title or power exchange roles is far more of an entitlement than it is.
This isn’t a criticism of this kind of service submission. Just don’t be so desperate that you let people take advantage of you or use you in he wrong way. While it should be obvious it doesn’t hurt to state that bottoms, submissive persons and slaves are people.
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I love the snippet from that guy’s profile. That makes a lot of sense.
Plenty of self-proclaimed dominants (regardless of gender) take things like that for granted. Really, who wants to be taken for granted in a relationship? Some fantasize about being taken for granted, but in reality, it doesn’t work for most people.
But it seems too often that lots of people try to pass off laziness or selfishness as dominance. “Oh, I don’t like doing housework. You do it.” That doesn’t come across as d/s to me.