Not having as much time for the fetish blogosphere as I once did I don’t run across as many bogus Femdom blogs as I once did.
Tweo that I’ve recently read have been almost archetypal instances of phony female domination: submissive men writing as dominant woman. And focus the trinity of their species: cuckoldry, sissyfication and extreme orgasm denial.
Because the author as created a virtual private universe the fake blogs have an internal consistency that can almost fool you.
One detail often gives the game away: panties.
Women who enjoy lingerie write of their attire with aestheticism and lyricism. The men I’m thinking of write mechanically.
For them panties aren’t something lovely. They are the master key to their obsession.
Not that I’m going to upbraid them for writing porn as fact. They are victims of their compulsion.
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Panties would always give the game away.
In one of our papers last year there was an article on how for women panties is the most loathed and disliked word. So bad is its reputation that the makers of pantyliners have discretely dropped the word from their product.
Thanks for that. Now that you mention it I don’t think i remember a woman using the word.
I’ve heard women use it (my grandmother I think), but I can’t stand it myself. I call ‘em “underwear.”
The usage has probably shifted over time. Women may have unconsciously reacted to whatever negative connotations the term acquired.
If I wouldn’t sound like a pervert I might call the local Victoria’s Secret and ask about the word.
Richard,
you’ve given me my first laugh for the day, thank you so much.
I came across a female submissive blog last night that I think is fake. As I read the entries that appealed to me I was left with the distinct feeling that the essence of reality was missing and by the time I had finished I felt quite disappointed and irritated.
My response has given me an insight into how submissive men can spot a fake femdom site. We all have an understanding of how activities feel in reality and how they feel in fantasy and it is the disquiet that we feel when the match is wrong that sparks our suspicions.
I hadn’t thought of faux “femsubs”. No surprise really. I had a friend who was overall a fine guy but like to bait men in chatrooms by pretending to be a teenage girl.
I’ve seen phony F/m blogs develop some strong followers: the authors are usually expressing primary fantasies and needs.
Cuckoldry