Spanking vs Whipping
I just added some future posts on FLR.Net so I felt I should try to post something here as well. But first some vintage M/m spanking photographs.
You know, when I see a slim guy like that I want to be the one providing the punishment. But I also feel a little annoyed with my switchiness wanting to stay within my submissiveness. Odd, eh?
As a man who enjoys vintage erotica I like the photographs (produced by the venerable Athletic Model Guild).
But hand spankings don’t stir me.
For me corporal punishment is the supreme kinky act, the fantasy primeval. I was eight the last time I was punished physically. By then my masochism was fully alive or I eroticized that whipping. Sometimes I imagine the insanse rage my father would’ve experienced had I ever been foolish enough to share that with him.
Daddy whipped me with a belt that day. He had me drop my pants and bend over the bed. Belts and switches were the exclusive instruments for my few childhood punishments.
So belts and switches were what I imagined being whipped with when my masochistic fantasies started around age eleven.
When – as is the way with masochists, it explains why so many of us become nutty when frustrated – those objects stopped satisfying my dreams of pain I started working in household objects.
Electrical cords – especially knotted cords and car antennas for example. Wet towels. I can’t help but think I would’ve seen men being lashed with whips in old pirate movies. But no recollection remains. From movies I got hot coals (a fantasy I eventually outgrew) and the rack (who the heck can afford one?).
I fantasized about being beaten on very piece of furniture in my parent’s house. And in various positions my body contorted in manners often impossible.
But never being spanked by hand.
Many years ago on AOL a man was interested in meeting me whose idea of corporal punishment were limited to spanking me by hand. So I never met him.
A strong person’s hand can surely cause pain. But the foolish fetishist – even nice ones – are prisoners of their passsions.
Originally posted 2016-01-24 20:56:39.